Situations occur in everyone’s life; depending on life experiences, it becomes a problem for some and opportunity for others. Now when the condition occurs in our life, it creates thoughts in our mind, which later generates a feeling within us, and based on that feeling, we execute an action that eventually yields us some result.

There are only two possible outcomes, either victory or defeat.

On achieving victory, a person has a choice to make. He can either be confident or develop a sense of ego. There is a considerable difference between both of them. For example, if I say that I can do it, then it is my confidence, while on the other hand, if I will say that only I can do it nobody else can, then it will undoubtedly be my ego.

In the case of defeat, a person again has a choice to make. He can either accept failure, understand his mistakes, and learn or blame other things or persons for the defeat. If a person chooses the first alternative, then he/she is on the way to become wise; otherwise, he/she starts becoming toxic for himself and others.

It is effortless to become toxic, and toxic people will always find a way to blame others for everything happening in their lives. It’s a conscious choice that one makes to become a wise, confident person who learns from his/her mistakes or becomes an egoistic toxic person who eventually becomes a liability on humanity.