HOW TO FACE YOUR BIGGEST FEARS AND CHALLENGE AND WIN!!
If you are going through certain difficult situations, or you want to achieve something of course there are challanges if your goals are high!
But how big those Challenges are!? They are as big as your fears, insecurities, doubts on yourself and such other self limiting beliefs inside of you.
So these Challenges are nothing but just a reflection of your own all those Thoughts n beliefs which you aquired during your past experiences.! Just think about it!
You can definitely overcome all those Challenges and Win, if you Follow these 3 STEPS: (STA)
1) SURRENDER, 2) TRUST , 3) ACT.
1) SURRENDER
So when you want achieve something, speak something to stand on your point, n take Action regarding that,or Reach somewhere ,
There are very obvious feelings of doubts, fear insecurities, guilt, shame and what not. That's normal, These feeling s will everytime try to convince you not to take any step or not to trust , you will come across all this whenever u will face certain challengiy situation,
But what's important is How you get over it n start doing what you want or what u dream of.
*ACCEPTANCE: Accept your surrounding situations and your presence in it, no matter how chaotic it is, or how unfavorable it looks from outside.
Once you will start Accepting it as your own, it will start settling down, in a way you want it to.
Because if you will Resist, the problem will expand more, so Accept it with both the hands.
As you will Accept all your flaws n unfavorable situi, all the Turmoils of Anxiety and overthoughts regarding that will start settling down naturally and you will start getting the Clarity.
So ACCEPTING IS THE FIRST STEP TO SURRENDER.
You might be thinking " Why I should Surrender!"? What does it Mean by Surrendering.
Surrender Doesn't Mean , doing nothing and kneel down, No.
What I meant is Surrendering all those upsetting emotions, negativity and all those self limiting beliefs To the God, to the Divine Energy you believe in
So Leave those upsetting thoughts , Leave to God, or whichever Divine Energy you believe in. And Relax into your existance.!!
Now During this there might be moments of Vulnerability, you might start crying, that's alright.
Because when you try to clear out all those unnecessary negativity, it comes on the surface obviously. And frankly it is very good for your well being, rather not to Suppress it. Even a Simple deep Breathing, Meditations and different energy Clearing modalities can help you release those low vibrational emotions.
So Turn your worries into Trust!
So Surrendering actually means leaving all those limiting beliefs and emotions and Trusting the Process, and Believing in Divine and your inner strength, that this will eventually turn into your favour.
So now when you have already Surrendered in a Healthy way Your mind is automatically in the state of Faith and Trust, which will give u courage to take Action.ðŸ‘
2) TRUST
Now when you Surrender, You Start Trusting the Process, no matter how it looks from outside, when Surrender, you will start becoming more Solution Focused, Trust yourself and Start becoming more mentally prepared, That how efficiently you can turn your Challenges work for your own benefits.
Because when you are Out if all negativity You start Trusting and become more clear and positive and become ready to take Healthy action steps.
For example
We want to get out of abusive relationship, but your partner or any other person is making you feel ashamed, guilty and making you feel down.
Inspite of speaking up you suppress your emotions, but That's not the solution!!
Infact what you should do is, Accept and love yourself completely and Allow yourself to release those upsetting emotions like your fears and doubts and Take stand for yourself and start taking Action, Out of Trust, this is just a part of the process a part of a journey towards Your and others highest good!
So Embark the journey towards your own n Others ultimate good, and Do whatever good it takes for it.🌼
3) ACT
So now when you have achieved that solution focused and positive mindset. You are all set to take Healthy Actions, keeping in mind that there is always a solution to everything, if you start becoming courageous enough to face the Challenges and obstacles.
Because " Problems and Solutions are born together"- Bhagwad Gita.
Thus you are definitely going to overcome any challange and win your war when your filled with , Surrender n Trust.
What has helped me along my journey is whenever I have Trusted and kept the Attitude to take a stand and firmly believing in myself n sticking to my goals and solutions consistantly , the Universe, or Divine, or God has helped me always to achieve it.
"Be Bold, and Mighty forces will come to your aid."- Basil King.